Although most people feel tense at one time or another,
what seems stressful to one person may not bother another
person at all. Stress tolerance also varies. If you are
overstressed, you may feel depressed and have less resistance
to illness. Learning to prevent or reduce stress can improve
the quality of your life.
Causes
Any major change in your life
will be stressful. Sickness or death of a friend or family
member causes great stress. So do conflicts with your spouse or
partner; moving; having a baby; dealing with money problems;
and trying to do more than you have time for. Getting fired
puts you under major stress, and so does starting a new job.
Injury and illness are very stressful. Even lack of rest is a
source of stress.
Signs/Symptoms
People under stress are typically
anxious, tense, and moody. You may also have skin rashes,
stomach pain, diarrhea, wheezing, changes in your period,
headaches, back pain, or trouble having sex.
Care
There is no instant cure for
excessive stress. Your doctor may suggest meditation or muscle
relaxation exercises to relieve the problem. You may need some
counseling in stress-management techniques.
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO
Talk things over with your family and friends; it
often helps to share your concerns and worries. If you feel
your problem is really bad, you may want to get help from a
counselor.
Don't blame yourself if things don't always go
right.
Learn what things make you feel tense and either
avoid them or learn how to deal with them
better.
Deal with your problems one at a time instead of
lumping them all together. Trying to take care of
everything at once may seem impossible. List all the things
you need to do and then start with the most important
one.
Do not use alcohol or drugs to relieve stress.
Although you may feel better for a short time, they do not
solve the underlying problems--and can be habit
forming.
Clean your house or your work space. Get rid of
things you don't need.
Exercise at least 3 times a week. Exercise helps to
reduce tension.
Take a short time-out period when you feel stressed
out during the day. Close your eyes and take some deep
breaths.
Try using muscle relaxation. Start with the muscles
in your face: Tense them, hold them this way for a few
seconds, and then relax. Repeat this with the muscles in
your neck, shoulders, hands, belly, back, and
legs.
Take good care of yourself. Eat a balanced diet and
get plenty of sleep.
Make time for fun. Take a break from your daily
chores to relax.
Call Your Doctor If...
You feel your problems are getting the best of you
and you can no longer deal with them on your
own.
Seek Care Immediately If...
You feel an urge to hurt yourself or someone
else.